TweenBeat

IMGP1138What I have discovered is that to boost any child’s imagination, we as parents need to provide opportunities and the supplies.  There are many ways to do this. 

As a family, we decided to only have one television, which we placed upstairs in our family room.  Just those few stairs have discouraged our children from watching a movie.   We have found that by limiting the amount of TV and video time and making those privileges have forced us to think outside the box.  Since  our children want to be busy and often claim to be bored,   we have created “stations” or areas that have designated activities. 

Some  of the stations, we have placed in common areas, others in a specific child’s room.  We did this to foster relationships and encourage respect for space and each other’s things.   For example, puzzles are in my son’s room and if someone wants to do puzzles they must ask first.  Crafts our in our oldest child’s room. She needs to be asked and also needs to participate with him as she shares a room with a baby and needs to be responsible for making sure the little pieces are picked up.

Here are some suggestions for creating “stations” or areas to foster imaginative play and creativity:

*  Provide an area with journals, paper, pens, crayons for younger children to write stories, letters, etc.

* Have a bucket of dress-ups in all sizes (shopping after Halloween for 90% off costumes was our way of providing a variety of sizes and costumes and props.) Encourage children, friends, etc. to create short plays to perform later.

* Put all puzzles together, if you have a craft table perhaps have one set up and going.  Have different levels of puzzles for different ages and levels of interest to keep kids busy.

* Offer craft buckets.  Make lists of holidays for children to make cards, have white or brown craft paper rolls for children to create their own personalized wrapping paper for future gifts, scrapbooking materials, etc.  (You can often find discount crafts after holidays. By picking up some to have on hand, it will save you from running out.)

* Book corners with bookshelves and comfy seats to encourage reading.  Make sure you ask your child about what they are reading as it is good for their retention of the story, but also for maintaining an interest with your child.

*A place where all games are local and easily accessed.  We like to have games that can be played by one or many.   Some family favorites include Yahtzee, Boggle, Monopoly Jr., What’s in Ned’s Head, Charades, Apples to Apples and Would you Rather.

* Outside stations where sports equipment are housed together, such as balls, gloves, chalk for outdoor art, bubbles, kites, etc.  Don’t think a tween is too old, these activities can be stress relievers, even for adults.

These are just a few suggestions, what other ideas do you have or use in creating imagination creation stations?

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Mini’s Really Big Show

Posted on March 5th, 2010 by Thomas Brock

TheaterThis past week, Mini’s class took part in a musical. It wasn’t the first time Mini has been in a school program that involved singing or dancing or what-have-you, but it was the first time she’s had real dialogue to remember and perform in front of a large audience. She did a great job, too, and I’m very proud of her. She remembered all her lines, spoke them strongly and with confidence and stayed focused on the play. Many of the children were distracted by waving parents and talking to their friends.

This is the same program that she tried out for the “stowaway” part several months ago. She didn’t get the part, but wasn’t deterred and kept trying for other positions and got a really cool part. Mini could have easily been upset that she didn’t get the part she wanted and then decided only to participate in the most minimal of ways. But she didn’t. She was determined to make the best of it. And she did.

I made a few observations during the show.

  • Many of the kids on stage didn’t want to be. It was obvious by their stance and attitude during the program.
  • Some of the parents didn’t want to be there. It was obvious by their stance and attitude during the program. They talked and were generally rude.
  • The set design was horrible. The pirate ship was on the floor. If you sat in a chair, you couldn’t see it (or the children in it) at all.
  • The sound was terrible. Music was provided by a small set of computer speakers. The microphones weren’t balanced well, some were really loud, others really faint.

It was a wonderful performance by nearly all the children. There was humor, music and dancing…and education! I never knew Mini had the authority to make someone a pirate!

What kind of musical programs have your tweens been involved in? How did the show go? Share you ideas, suggestions and questions in the comments.

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Holiday Gift Guide: Arts and Crafts

Posted on December 18th, 2009 by Thomas Brock

Photograph by Thomas Brock and his faithful Nikon D40

This is the fourth in my series of holiday gift guides. The first was on electronics,  the second on books, the third on board games. This one is on arts and crafts.

Mini enjoys coloring, painting and making things with clay. Here’s my top list of recommendations and ideas for your artsy tween.

Crayola has long been the go-to supplier for arts and crafts supplies for children. With products that range from colored pencils and markers to crayons and air-drying clay, it’s easy to see why. I’m a big fan of their washable markers (fabric safe!)m paints and their air-dry clay has recently become a craft favorite here.

If your tween is a little more artistically advanced than Crayola’s line of supplies, your local big box arts and crafts stores (It’s Michael’s, here in Jacksonville), will have plenty of art kits. They usually have a basic set of brushes, paints and wax pastels. Some of the more expensive kits have built-in easels and come with pencils, charcoal and larger varieties of paints and pastels.

There’s always classes at your local craft store or arts council. Arts books are good gifts and your local arts supply store probably has inexpensive and small craft kits that make excellent stocking stuffers.

But don’t feel locked into a particular kit, either. A quality set of brushes, paints and palette make for a great gift. Don’t forget the canvas, though!

There’s plenty more of arts and crafts gift ideas out there, if you look around, you’re bound to find something!

Does your tween have an artistic streak? What are your artsy gift ideas? Share them, ask questions and make suggestions in the comments.

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Craft Time: Diorama Daze

Posted on November 18th, 2009 by Thomas Brock

arts and crafts paints and claysLast week, I discussed entertaining children with arts and crafts. This week, we began a project which will be a several weekends long task.

This past weekend, Mini and I started working on a diorama. The project required some supplies that we got from the local Michaels craft store:

  • Colored sands (we got a variety pack with several different colors of sand)
  • A tube of plastic animals (Mini picked horses)
  • A collection of model trees (Mini picked an Autumn collection).

Some other supplies that I had at home were:

  • Glue stick
  • Paper box lid
  • Sharpie markers

Using Sharpies we outlined what would become a pond and stream to the inside of the paper box lid. Mini applied glue from the stick inside the lines and then poured some mixed light and dark blue sands (the glue holds the sand, giving the appearance of water).

We repeated the process until the entire pond and stream area was covered in a layer of sand and then applied the same technique using greens for grass.

It was about half-way through the grassy area that the glue stick ran out, so we decided it would become a multi-weekend project.

All told, the cost for the supplies was just over $20. It’s not a bad investment in what’s going to be a pretty big time consumer and may lead to expanding Mini’s artistic horizons.

I’m going to use this project, once it’s completed, to get Mini interested in another art form: Photography. Once the diorama is complete, we’ll set up her horses and take photographs. I’ll be sure to share the results, with her permission, of course.

How do you entertain your children on the cheap? Do you have arts and crafts ideas? Ask questions, make suggestions  or share your ideas in the comments.

Mini picked up a couple of crafts books from the library this weekend and she wanted to do the most complicated (and expensive to prepare) activities in the books this past weekend. I convinced her that we should wait until this weekend, so that we could get stuff (sand, rocks, fake plants and little animals) to make a diorama.

We did make leaf-imprints in Crayola air-dry clay and made some colored leaf-rubbings on printer paper (which was more fun for me than her, I think!) which filled her “craft-o-meter” for the weekend.

In the past, we’ve tried paper-folding, painting and coloring in books for crafty entertainment. I wish I could do more with the painting and drawing, but along with a lack of musical skills, I’ve got little artistic talent. I want to introduce Mini to photography, but I’m not sure that she’s got the patience or eyes for it, yet.

She enjoys trips to the Jacksonville-Onslow Council for the Arts and always likes to look at the sculptures and pottery. They’re not hosting pottery classes, but if they do, I’ll get her signed up for one or two. Unfortunately, Jacksonville and Onslow County aren’t known for supporting the arts, which leaves a pretty big gap in children’s hands-on craft-making.

We try to do some crafty stuff, to keep Mini’s artsy-mind active. It may not always be a fancy craft-kit or come from a big book of ideas, but even if it’s just coloring leaves on paper, it keeps her engaged a bit.

The great thing about arts and crafts is that it’s a wonderful way of keeping your children active and engaged, allowing them to express themselves and can be pretty cheap if you’ve got white paper, some glue and crayons.

What kind of arts and crafts do your children enjoy? What’s your favorite? Ask your questions and make your suggestions in the comments.




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